Sometimes it roars and sometimes it soars.
A widely discussed four letter word which gets on everyone’s nerves.
Some have experienced it and some haven’t, but all do have their own take on it.
I’m proud to say that I have never been in love.Some may think that it’s my loss as I didn’t experience this wonderful feeling till now.But I do believe that I have something better waiting for me.
These thoughts aside what exactly is love??? I started delving a little deeper when my friend went through a meltdown.I had often heard him speak about love and he’s a little on the emotional side.But a few days ago he suddenly realised that he had lost the ‘love of his life’.He had erred and ended up losing her.His anguish opened up something in me, it confused me and I decided to pen my thoughts down.
‘You don’t love someone because they’re perfect.You love them in spite of the fact that they’re not.’When two people with their imperfections come together and realise that they can form an unbreakable bond with each other they fall in love.I know it sounds like an answer to a science question!!! A person whom I met once told me that love destroyed his life.The same person even went on to tell that he won’t ever do the same mistake of falling in love again and will stay away from it.I did reckon he was hurt.It did make me laugh though,I want to wait and see if he will stay true to his word and will never fall in love again.
Human mind is too complex,too mesmerising.A mix of thoughts and emotions.I being a med student get frequently amazed by the various thoughts it processes.Many of these thoughts are undoubtedly related to love.Be it caring or be it jealousy,be it sharing or be it hatred.Love is surrounded by too many theories.It is intriguing to see that this single word can affect millions of souls all over the world.Nicholas Sparks details it beautifully in his novel ‘The Notebook’.
My heart always warms up when I see a couple in love.I silently wish for them to be happy forever.But then after sometime I begin questioning myself.Will their love fade or remain the same? Will they withstand the tests life throws at them? Will they remain together ever after.One fine day I posed these same questions to my aunt and she simply answered ‘you will figure out for yourself’.Then again I asked her ‘how will I know when I fall in love?’ and she retorted by telling me that ‘I will know’.
I’m waiting for that magical moment to happen in my life.Meanwhile I do have my own doubts, confusions and ideas.Don’t we all do? My dear confused souls I just poured a few of my thoughts here.And to tell the least ‘I’m still confused’!!!!!